Are you one of those who cannot walk peacefully on the street without getting worried about how much it’s going to be said about them either publicly or secretly?

An average single guy or lady who is of age to get married survives mockery from the family members, to the society at large. As if that was not enough, members of churches and mosques come up with regular and constant question of when are we meeting the lucky guy or lady? And you keep wondering if these ones are agents of monitoring spirit on your marital life.




I will say it’s absolute “No” over and over. They are playing the cultural role expected of them. The most shocking part is that they are perfectly ignorant of what singleness has to offer, and they are blind to see the blessings and benefits attached to being single.

My dear, if you are single, you are blessed. For those who are married, I say congratulations to you.

“Doing the best at this moment puts you in the best place for the next moment!” –Oprah Winfrey

Benefits You Don’t Know Exist In Being Single

The greatest of all is that you have your time to yourself. This is the most rated importance of being single. Have you ever thought of starting something great with your time? This is your moment. The moment for you to get yourself fixed to something that will prepare you for that greater place, and a better partner.

Do I need to remind you how much time you have spent on thinking about someone who does not worth it back then? Why not begin to use that time to think about how you can make a change for yourself, your family, your generation and society as a whole.

This is also a moment you are expected to discover yourself, know yourself, identify yourself and love yourself. What do you understand about yourself? If not much, get focused on that in a time like this. I put this to you, do you love you? Do you love your hardworking nature? Do you love your determination in achieving any greater things? If no, you are only willing to be engaged or married, you are obviously not prepared.




Listen carefully reader,

Keep yourself busy investing on who you, and who you can be. Learn how to survive, learn how to love you, and do yourself a favour of avoiding the distractions of those family members or friends, church or mosque members. You are you with your special timing. They are playing their cultural role, play yours by focusing on your goals and mission in life.

Being single is not the end of life, it’s the best part of your life that you have an unquestionable freedom and several thoughts to yourself. I ask u; who and what do you live for? If not for anyone or just anything, but for your God, yourself and your goals in life… I congratulate you as a single guy or lady.

What you do with this moment determines you in that forthcoming relationship.

“The most profound relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves.” –Shirley Maclaine

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